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akpeno
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Posted: 9/17/2008 1:34:00 PM

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RE: First Love.
My People I don come again o!

I'm hoping you guys can view this objectively and give feedbacks:

My first love is like an undying leach on my skin! I can't stop thinking about him.
I see him rarely but we talk very regularly I have tried everything from insulting myself, insulting him... convincing myself he's no good... ….

Sometimes he even treats me with little regard... for example I could be talking to him on the phone and then all of a sudden he says "hold on" and then hangs up! and won't call back till I call and he gives a lame excuse like " You know I'm busy...

He says he'll call but rarely ever does,
He says he'll visit but has NEVER Visited!
I do all the traveling..…….

To say the truth the guy owes me nothing because we are not in a relationship BUT for some STUPID, STRANGE, SELF DESTROYING REASON, which I can't put my finger on, I keep wanting to keep in touch with this fellow.

I have tried it all. Delete phones numbers (Which I already have memorized) Expressionless
Delete his pictures, burn the printed ones.... name it I've done it! Yet the Bastard is still on my Mind!

What is a girl to do?.... Please advice!

ogunstate
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Posted: 9/17/2008 1:53:00 PM

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RE: First Love.
dont worry yr sef jare... dats life 4 u....u fall in love with wrong person at times.. move on with yr life girl....

akpeno
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Posted: 9/17/2008 3:00:00 PM

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RE: First Love.
The problem na how to Move on...

iyabo
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Posted: 9/17/2008 3:16:00 PM

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Akpeno, are there times you find yourself thinking of him more, maybe evening times for example? Fill in those times with talking to your good friends, doing things that interest you.. it's hard o. It's a pity we cant get a big eraser and erase unwanted memories.
Time heals sha.

akpeno
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Posted: 9/17/2008 3:51:00 PM

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RE: First Love.
@Iyabo

Yes O if only we had a big fat eraser believe me I for don erase am since!!!

Talking to good friends doesn't help anymore 'cause we end up talking about their men which brings me right back to where I started... Sad

Doing things that interest me work to an extent... and then right back!

My dear I don tire!

garywoghiren
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Posted: 9/17/2008 8:24:00 PM

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Dauda the "sexy guy" don strike Akpeno. Chei!

It's going to be hard, but..

I will recommend you take a vacation, for example a 3 or 7 day cruise the Bahamas, I have been many times, and let loose. Or, come to Vegas, Lav and I will show you around town and you will forget Dauda ever existed. Big Smile

angelz_211
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Posted: 9/17/2008 8:53:00 PM

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RE: First Love.
Getting over a first love is real hard and unfortunately all solutions like filling up ur time will only serve as a temporal relief.

the formula u are after which is a way to forget him immediately doesnt exist. the solution is slow, tough and painful. u'll make great progress for sometime and another time it'll feel like u're back at square one.

its just time that will sort it out. u'll find a new man and u'll move on. u may have a slight relapse even 2 yrs from now when u see him but dont worry. as love for the next lucky guy in ur life grows it'll naturally push out the thoughts of this first love. so much so that it time u wont believe that u were ever so bothered abt this guy.

its tough but endure and u'll pull through eventually but in the mean time look on the bright side.. he is doing u a great favour by showing what a twat he actually is. u know u deserve better than him, u deserve a guy that will worship the ground u walk on and deep down u know that even if u ended up with this guy he'd always have the power to hurt u at will.

so celebrate!! this is the perfect case of GOOD RIDDANCE TO BAD RUBBISH! Smiley

lavinchy
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Posted: 9/17/2008 10:19:00 PM

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Gary..u just reminded me of those magazines back in the day"dauda the sexy guy" and "Ikebe super" That was funny...

Akpeno...we dey wait u...come to vegas......na black jack all the way. No slot machines....That's for old women Big Smile

ogunstate
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Posted: 9/18/2008 1:19:00 AM

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nice one @ angel but....u know u deserve better than him, u deserve a guy that will worship the ground u walk... Cool down ooo... Guys dont worship women again ooo...execpt d one's with plenty cash to throw around... words.

garywoghiren
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Posted: 9/18/2008 1:35:00 AM

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Ogunstate is right. Plus the ones with super Ikebe.

ogunstate
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Posted: 9/18/2008 8:17:00 AM

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haha.. Big Smile super ikebe?? Abeg .. lavina i want see yr pics abeg.. both front and back ooo... Gary no vex am just curious??? Scared

tino_ogs
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Posted: 9/18/2008 8:48:00 AM

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@ angel...u were doing so well and then u spoilt it by calling the poor soul "bad rubbish". its not his fault that Akpeno cant move on is it?

@ Akpeno, u know deep down there is an itch that only this guy knows how to scratch...or so u think. u need to go to him on a cold winter day or night, get it over with and put that final experience in a bottle and throw it away...but dont wash before, do it after.

the only thing that will be different this time is that you will always remind urself (while the itch is being sorted), that he aint all that after all.

After the xperience, go have a hot bath, go do some shopping, eat something u absolutely hate, like double cheese burgers or somthing, go to sleep and you wont bother about him no more.

dont ask me why this works, i cant xplain, but i know it worked for me and people i recommended it to who tried it.

u see, its the habit of the relationship that we miss u know cos everyone is special. so, you will soon meet another "special someone" soon, once you have had that last itch scratched.

SOme babe said to me few months ago that she doesnt mind that her ex is dating someone else, its just that he eats her congo like no one else had before and she is angry that someone else is enjoying that experience...i think deep down thats the real reason...we think he /she is all that but in truth, there are plenty more out there who can do as good a job if not better.

the bobo dey crase to leave all that landing strip behind. wats his problem?

ahanna
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Posted: 9/18/2008 9:03:00 AM

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how do u forget your first love.......

Simple answer, you can't, you just move on. even if na bad experience, you still can't forget.

I mean how do u forget the first time you drive a car, ride a bike, first kiss, first ...., your first day in a new place, it is difficult to forget the first or any thing that plays a part in your life.

na Experience

iyabo
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Posted: 9/18/2008 10:53:00 AM

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first love is always first love.
what we hold onto are the good memories.
but remember he is now an X for a reason

akpeno
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Posted: 9/18/2008 11:10:00 AM

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RE: First Love.
Hmmm I don read all of una ideas...
From Lavi and Gary's (New couple by the way..) invitation to Las Vegas to.....
Eating a fat cheese burger from tinogs....

I am soooo willing to try these ..... AGAIN!

While these are all good ideas I have done them ALL
From scratching the itch to partying with good friends...
To finding someone else... moving on....
I don do am ALL but I still get back to where I started.

That na why I dey Asorock dey seek advice!....

Maybe I need Obi to conjur some special formular for me or else... Sad Perplexed

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