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Posted: 1/3/2008 3:26:00 AM

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A girl wrote this:

Is your Career less important to you than your marriage? that was the question i was Asked by my Boss when i presented my Wedding IV to him.
To worsen the whole thing he said i will have to come to work on the Day of my traditional marriage.

I really need advise abeg.


Now, what will you do in this situation?

ebak
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Posted: 1/3/2008 4:06:00 AM

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There is more to this than meets the eye. I suspect she has been having a steady romp with her boss. Now that it is time for her to marry, the boss is not well disposed to this idea of sharing her with another man.

So he will try every trick in the book to frustrate the plan. She is likely to encounter more problems with her career after her wedding. Let her confess to her fiance, resign and secure a new job.

ogunstate
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Posted: 1/3/2008 4:14:00 AM

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elder ebak u yarn well....

iyabo
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Posted: 1/3/2008 5:45:00 AM

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Elder Ebak. as always, you see deep into the heart of the matter.
You do well lightbulb

onwa
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Posted: 1/3/2008 6:37:00 AM

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What if the Boss has been making advances which she has always rejected and now he feels this is his way of getting at her? I wouldn't think that she would be so bold as to presenting her Boss with her IV if she was having an affair with him. Just my own thought but wetin me go talk be say...a new job she can always get but Husband no easy to get like that oh...shine ya eyes. thumbs up

omo_ketu
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Posted: 1/4/2008 4:01:00 AM

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simple call in sick and bring doctors letter to support am.

atleast dem no fit sack her for been sick now

obi
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Posted: 1/4/2008 12:33:00 PM

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@Onwa, just like she can always get a new job, she can as well get herself a new husband. It's about priority but anybody that passes on his/her love because of job is not in love in the first place. Love doesnt ask why except if na Iyabo love?

lavinchy
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Posted: 1/4/2008 1:59:00 PM

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What is career? Marriage anytime. U can alwys be creative and create a career at home; A good man is hard to find, and if i got one, career could go to blazes!! We will figure something out!! Big Smile

triple225
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Posted: 1/4/2008 7:03:00 PM

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Lab,..tell me y i no go like u Wink


true talk na him u talk thumbs up

obi
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Posted: 1/4/2008 11:33:00 PM

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@triple, i no believe say you dey follow this bush lady wey dem dey call lavinchy talk like that. How many women for America dey gree marry sef?

iyabo
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Posted: 1/4/2008 11:53:00 PM

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Obi you know my stand..
My Love for my marriage is the most important thing.
Haba there are other jobs out there.
It is ridiculous for the boss to demand that a woman
works on her wedding day, even if say she had been
messing with him.. I think that would be the final
call to Walk away from that job..If she stayed
imagine the further unreasonable demands that would be
made on her and the subsequent effects on her marriage.
Obi I will always be by your side no matter what..You
come first heart

triple225
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Posted: 1/5/2008 8:04:00 AM

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Iyabo,..tell me u mean this oath to obi.. Big Smile

lavinchy
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Posted: 1/5/2008 9:32:00 AM

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Obinna, Ishi katapoult!! Who da h*ll u calling a bush girl? I put the "A" in ajebo. Ishi nkapi...

Ne wayz....back to my street self!! IYABO O, when did all the love u have for 30 transfer to this declared and certified olodo????

Triple love..how na?

Suprising thing is, ive seen a lot of people choose career over marriage in a lot of ways. This isnt only about making a choice on ur wedding day, it also boils down to the life after marriage. U see a man or woman not having time for the family because of the demands of his/her career.Ill continue my point...gotta run, career calls Big Smile

obi
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Posted: 1/6/2008 1:14:00 AM

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Lavinchy, nti elephant...na be the first person wey tell you say you be bushmo? how marriage take pass career? no dey listen to Iyabo because she dey sure say after marrying me, I go make her a prophetess in my shrine and that's a very lucrative career.

yooto
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Posted: 1/7/2008 8:10:00 PM

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maybe the boss is testing her if she really love the man. she can go ahead for the marriage if she really wanna get married. producing childing without job is risky too.

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